Valentine's Day is coming. February 14 is the day we celebrate our love and appreciation for that special someone in our lives. Traditionally, we have expressed that love with flowers, candy, cards, and perhaps a special dinner out.

Our children are also very special gifts in our lives. Our days are often so busy that we forget to slow down and appreciate what is right in front of us. Take some time this Valentine's Day to convey your love to your child. Celebrate the wonderful someone that he or she is.

14 Ways to Show Love for Your Child This Valentine's Day

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Parents who struggle with a child's public tantrums or frequent defiance may feel powerless and unsure how to deal with the behavior problems. Many are reluctant to discuss these oppositional behaviors because they fear being judged by others. But the best course of action is to talk about it with your child's doctor.

Read Closing the Communication Gap to learn more.

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It is not unusual for a child to argue with adults or be uncooperative and defiant at times. However, when the oppositional behaviors become more severe, more hostile, and more frequent there may be greater cause for concern.

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is diagnosed when there is a persistent pattern of angry, defiant, verbally aggressive behavior towards parents and other authority figures that has been ongoing for at least six months, is not related to a temporary stressor or other condition, is excessive compared to what is usual for the child's age, and significantly impairs a child's day to day functioning.

Learn More About the Symptoms of ODD

"The single most consistent predictor of a child's future success as an adult is self esteem."
--Thom Hartmann

One common bond that all adults with ADHD share is a childhood with ADHD...and there can be a wide range of feelings that come along growing up with ADHD. For many, this means having to repeatedly hear and process lots of negative feedback, yet still be able to find strengths within themselves.

Watch this video from TotallyADD to better understand the emotional journey that often occurs when you have ADHD. Click on the link below which will bring you to a page with the Emotional Journey videos, then click on RIDING THE ROLLER COASTER.

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